Last night my friend T and I decided to hang out. Our typical scheme of hanging out lately is buying beers and maybe some food and driving over to T2's house to drink them and fuck around. This is what we did last night.
However, when we got to the beer store, thing were a little different this time. I said I'm trying to save money, so we were going to be getting really cheap beer. T wasn't in love with the idea, so he offered to buy PBR (which, FYI, is extraordinarily cheap itself - but it's slightly more expensive than the Keystone Light I was eyeing). He bought the PBR. I bought some ice cream, since I was hungry. I got an Its-It . After tax, it was
$1.49
I paid in cash. Tom bought the beer.
That's a thing about saving money, I think. You end up mooching off of other people. When people say to me, "I'm trying to save money," my immediate reaction used to be "oh, I'll pay then." I was pretty generous when it came to buying shit for other people. I think that is a nice trait, but it isn't one I'll be relying on in the coming year. I'm going to try to just pay for myself. I know my original post said it would be okay to "help other people get happy" (or whatever) with my spending, but I think this is an importance place to save, particularly for me. I will have to make up ground in my friendships to make my friends feel comforted and loved WITHOUT buying things for them. I'll have to adapt in that regard if I want to stay a good friend. Even if I explain this to them - or send them to this blog - it would still feel reliant to me. But I guess saving a lot of money, basically, makes you reliant on other people.
So then T and T2 and I played GTA5 while drinking our PBRs. T2 doesn't drink because he's on head-meds, so it was just me and T. T gets hungry when he gets drunk. So, after a while, T2 suggested we go to Taco Bell. Don't make me explain why Taco Bell is gross and sucks, but needless to say, I feel that way. I didn't even like it as a kid - I always wanted McDonalds; my brother was the one who liked Taco Bell. Except, as I discovered in college, the Crunchwrap Supreme is pretty good. I paid with cash:
$2.91.
that's $4.4 so far. By the way, Taco Bell is having a promotion where you can win a Playstation 4:
However, when we got to the beer store, thing were a little different this time. I said I'm trying to save money, so we were going to be getting really cheap beer. T wasn't in love with the idea, so he offered to buy PBR (which, FYI, is extraordinarily cheap itself - but it's slightly more expensive than the Keystone Light I was eyeing). He bought the PBR. I bought some ice cream, since I was hungry. I got an Its-It . After tax, it was
$1.49
I paid in cash. Tom bought the beer.
That's a thing about saving money, I think. You end up mooching off of other people. When people say to me, "I'm trying to save money," my immediate reaction used to be "oh, I'll pay then." I was pretty generous when it came to buying shit for other people. I think that is a nice trait, but it isn't one I'll be relying on in the coming year. I'm going to try to just pay for myself. I know my original post said it would be okay to "help other people get happy" (or whatever) with my spending, but I think this is an importance place to save, particularly for me. I will have to make up ground in my friendships to make my friends feel comforted and loved WITHOUT buying things for them. I'll have to adapt in that regard if I want to stay a good friend. Even if I explain this to them - or send them to this blog - it would still feel reliant to me. But I guess saving a lot of money, basically, makes you reliant on other people.
So then T and T2 and I played GTA5 while drinking our PBRs. T2 doesn't drink because he's on head-meds, so it was just me and T. T gets hungry when he gets drunk. So, after a while, T2 suggested we go to Taco Bell. Don't make me explain why Taco Bell is gross and sucks, but needless to say, I feel that way. I didn't even like it as a kid - I always wanted McDonalds; my brother was the one who liked Taco Bell. Except, as I discovered in college, the Crunchwrap Supreme is pretty good. I paid with cash:
$2.91.
that's $4.4 so far. By the way, Taco Bell is having a promotion where you can win a Playstation 4:


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